Dear Reader,
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Let’s cut through the tinsel and talk about what Christmas really feels like this year.

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Truth bomb: I’m sitting here writing this with a box of tissues nearby, and that’s perfectly okay. 2024 has been a year of epic changes - some wanted, some not so much. My beloved fur baby Lady, who was my constant companion for 13 years, crossed the rainbow bridge at the end of May. Add to that a relationship ending in October, and yeah, my Christmas looks different this year. No more familiar traditions with his kids and family. Just me, navigating this new normal.

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Here’s what I know for sure: If you’re also feeling the weight of an empty chair at your table or missing someone who made Christmas feel like Christmas, I see you. Really see you.

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Grief’s like that uninvited party guest who shows up whenever they damn well please. Sometimes it’s a gentle tap on the shoulder, other times it’s a full-body tackle. Both are valid. Both are human.

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So here’s your permission slip to:
- Skip the fake smiles
- Order takeout instead of cooking that traditional feast
- Cry into your eggnog
- Feel whatever you need to feel

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But remember this: While grief comes in waves, you’ve got an anchor right here. This community’s got your back, through the ugly cries and the breakthrough smiles.

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​Speaking of community - if you’re craving some extra support, our 11:11 Circle of Trust on Facebook is your safe harbor. We’re hosting a special mediumship event tomorrow (Thursday, December 26th) at 6:30pm CST. Nothing fancy, just real people holding space for each other and maybe connecting with some loved ones on the other side.

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Whether this Christmas finds you dancing or crying (or both), know that you’re not alone in this messy, beautiful human experience.
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With love and zero pressure to “just be merry,”

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P.S. The mediumship event details are in the Facebook group. Come as you are - pajamas and puffy eyes welcome.
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